I’ve been stuck in a crappy marriage ever since Day 1 – 8 years ago. There’s really nothing good about this marriage I can mention. He doesn’t give me his attention and fails to pleasure me when I need it. He would rather watch SportsCenter than have sex with me. Heck, even when I try to be nice and offer up some head, he rarely accepts the offer. He must be the only male alive that turns down a blowjob. There’s something wrong with him.
But I don’t care what’s wrong with him anymore. All I care about is myself. I’m tired of trying to please other people. Now it’s “my” time. About a week ago I created an account on SexSearch.com, just for fun. I figured I had nothing to lose and maybe I would get lucky and find some decent guy to have sex with. Hey, if the hubby won’t give it up, I’ll find someone that will. His loss, not mine.
Despite being new to online cheating sites (or any form of online dating), I quickly learned 5 things about these sites:
- If you post a revealing, sexy photo of yourself, you will receive a million emails and IM’s from horny, perverted douches.
- An attractive female can say anything to a guy online and get away with it. They’ll still want to hookup.
- Most men are clearly sending canned messages to probably 50 different women.
- There actually are a decent amount of good looking men. Some are hot, some are cute, and some are doable in desperate times.
- Guys online will say anything to get into your pants.
Maybe it’s because I’ve been stuck in such a shitty marriage for so long, but I’ve spent countless hours this past week messing with guys online. Well, messing with some of them. The cute guys, I’ve been trying to get to know because I may consider hooking up with them.
So far I haven’t met anyone, but only because I’m trying to figure out how I will keep this a secret from my husband. As much of a jackass as he is, I don’t want to get divorced for reasons I’d rather not go into. I have been chatting through Instant Messenger with a few guys and we’re trying to work out a way to get together. They’re all married too and have the same problem as I do.
Sorry to disappoint you by not sharing any juicy details about guys I’ve been sleeping with. But I’m new to this and haven’t been able to meet anyone…yet. But I am enjoying SexSearch.com and would definitely recommend it to other women that are stuck in a marriage as crappy as mine. There seem to be some decent guys on that site and I’m sure there are on other cheater dating sites.