I’m now in my early 40’s, married and have children. I’m not bragging here, but I’ve made quite a bit of money in my life, which affords me the opportunity to spend time with my family. I’m mostly retired, which is nice. Yet, despite what you may think is the perfect lifestyle, I’m actually very lonely. My wife takes great care of our children, which I’m thankful for. But she doesn’t take care of me, and hasn’t for a long time. When I say “take care of me”, I’m talking about between the sheets.
I can’t remember the last time my wife and I shared a pleasurable intimate experience together – maybe 2009, maybe longer. My sex drive is still very high, and hers has diminished. I don’t know if she’s just grown bored of having sex with me, but she’s never in the mood anymore. I remember back when we were in our 20’s, we used to do it like rabbits…and damn was it good!
Wanting to relive my twenties, I signed up for a few adult online dating sites recently. I’ve been thinking about doing this for the past 6 months or so but only recently gathered up the courage. I don’t want my wife to find out so I had to plan things out before I jumped into it. With the advice of some adult dating experts, I created a pretty sweet profile that included an attractive photo of me. I’ve barely contacted any women yet because they have been contacting me left and right. I’m quite happy with that.
My first encounter with a woman came a couple of weeks ago. She was very attractive. Nice body, smelled great, and knew how to please a man (i.e. gives great head). So far so good with her. I’m still keeping my options open. I want to “try out” a few women. I’ve had sex with this one twice and both times the experience was great. She definitely seemed into me and wants more. I certainly won’t be denying her another opportunity to ride my cock!
I have really enjoyed my short amount of time using adult dating sites. Going through profiles is quite entertaining – even the girls I’m not attracted to. There are some obvious fake profiles, which doesn’t bother me. And there are some profiles that make you wonder if that person ever graduated High School. And if they did, how?
I don’t know how much longer I will be using online dating sites to meet women. I may meet a few women, sleep with them for a while, and then try to spice up the sex life with my wife. That would be the ideal situation, but having a good sex life with my wife again may be impossible. But for now, I’m just going to enjoy these discreet relationships and continue having sex like I’m still in my twenties. Life is short and I’m getting towards the end of my sexual prime. Time for me to have some fun before I need Viagra!