I’ve been married 7 years to the same man. Our life is okay. We fight from time to time, have financial issues, and occasionally struggle to get along. But overall, it’s not a horrible marriage. There are far worse ones. As for our sex life, well, that’s a long story! When we do it, it’s usually pretty good. I don’t always get off because he has some Premature Ejaculation issues. To his credit, he’s worked hard at getting past those. But sometimes he shoots his load too fast and leaves me having to finish myself off.
The Premature Ejaculation stuff isn’t what bothers me most. I had always fantasized about having a 3-some, which would involve him. Every time I mention this to him, he shoots down the idea. I prefer the 3-some to be with another man, but I even offered to do it with another female. I’m bi-sexual, but more into guys. The idea of seeing me with another woman doesn’t even turn him on. He’s probably the only male alive that wouldn’t jump at the opportunity to have sex with his wife and another woman.
I have a VERY attractive female friend that wanted to join us in the bedroom. I know my husband thinks she’s hot because I always catch him staring at her ass. One day, I invited her over for dinner and told her to wear a skimpy outfit. This was the night we were going to finally convince him to have a 3-some. She showed up dressed like a total whore and both of us put the moves on him over a glass of whine. He completely flipped out. Here we were, 2 attractive females begging to get into bed with him, and he’s turning the offer down. There was nothing more I could do. Since this idea didn’t work, nothing would. No biggie…
I was determined to get what I wanted…
If he doesn’t want to sleep with me and another hot female, I’ll find someone that will. Nothing was going to get in my way of acting out this fantasy I’ve had ever since I was a teenager – not even my husband. When I want something, I get it. And I get it right away. So I signed up for SexSearch.com after reading about how men, women, and couples go on there looking for hookups.
SexSearch was an easy place to meet couples. Since I prefer M/M/F, I flirted with some gay couples. I wasn’t sure if they would be interested in a female joining in, but I was able to find a gay couple that was bi-sexual. They were 2 great guys just looking to have some fun. Before the first time we met, I was very nervous. This was a fantasy I’ve dreamed of for a long time and here I was about to finally get to act it out.
They sensed my nervousness right away, but did a great job of making me feel comfortable. We took things slow that night, which was much appreciated. They not only made sure I felt comfortable, they made sure I enjoyed the experience. I certainly did. We hookup about once a week. I’d like for it to happen more often but it’s hard to do with me being married. I think my next encounter will be with a man and a woman. Better get back to SexSearch.com to look for one!