Stuck Being Married to the Homecoming King

I’m the girl that married the Homecoming King. He was the hottest, most popular guy in school. When we first started dating, I really only cared that he was hot and popular. All the girls in school were jealous, which made me happy. Here’s the problem – being popular only matters when you’re young. My guy offered nothing more than looks and popularity. Sure, he could make me laugh but I would laugh at any stupid joke a hot guy said

he could make me laugh but I would laugh at any stupid joke a hot guy said

he could make me laugh but I would laugh at any stupid joke a hot guy said

I was young and clueless, so I married him before turning 21. Three years into our marriage, he still hadn’t given me one powerful sexual experience. I lost my virginity to this guy and he’s the only one I had ever slept with. I kept hearing my girlfriends talk about how awesome their sex lives are and how great their man is at pleasing them. Now I was the jealous one. I didn’t mention how much the sex with my husband sucked because, come on, he’s a hottie. How can the sex be bad? Maybe it’s just me?

Or maybe it’s NOT me at all…

I’ve never had a problem getting myself off, but it required the use of a vibrator. My husband never has been able to. We would do it and then I would always have to finish myself off. He’s never seemed to care. I fake orgasms all the time and he’s too dumb to figure that out. He gets by on his looks and I was clueless enough to allow him to.

I would always have to finish myself off

I would always have to finish myself off

I decided I was going to get that satisfying sex life one way or another. Clearly, it wasn’t going to be with my husband. So I found AshleyMadison.com by doing a Google search. This was the best decision of my life. I consider myself an attractive woman and I do have confidence and high self-esteem (though you probably wouldn’t have gathered that from reading this). I knew once I created a profile, decent guys would be after me.

I knew once I created a profile, decent guys would be after me

I knew once I created a profile, decent guys would be after me

Attractive guys were after me, right away. I had tons of messages within hours after I signed up. I’m not sure what it’s like in most towns, but since I live in Los Angeles, there were hundreds of men nearby. Before signing up, I didn’t really spend much time picturing the type of guy I wanted to have sex with. I’m no longer attracted to the preppy look of my husband. So once I started receiving emails from guys, I started narrowing things down based on their look (preppy and average guys were out, cute guys with tattoo’s were in) and if they could speak a coherent sentence.

I chatted with 5 guys via Instant Messaging and Email to start. I wanted to get to know them a bit and determine whom I would meet. I narrowed those 5 down to 2 pretty quickly. I felt more of a connection to them. I told them both I would be choosing between them and made them each write me a one-page letter detailing how they would please me. The best letter would get the date. Both letters were amazing and I was turned on just from reading them. It was too hard to make a decision, so I decided to go out with both of them. This was a good idea. I’m now hooking up with 2 very cute guys that know how to please a woman. Finally, my sex life is satisfying!